Sunday, January 27, 2013

Growing too fast!


These two kiddos of mine are clearly growing up much too fast!

Miss Mylie:
  • is rocking 2nd grade
  • has improved her handwriting so much
  • is a reading fool
  • is still missing her 2 front teeth
  • is kind
  • is a little bit drama
  • looooves her iPod 
  • is excited to play soccer this spring
  • is a great helper at home
  • sang in Sacrament Meeting today with two friends (so cute!)
  • loves to play school
Mr. Blake
  • has lots of girlfriends
  • loves preschool
  • is a class clown
  • writes his name really well
  • is doing a good job of identifying letters
  • turns FIVE this week (where did my baby go?)
  • loves to wear footie pajamas
  • is still quite the snuggler
  • can't wait for spring soccer to start
  • plays school with Mylie all the time
  • has a messy room
They drive me bonkers and delight me in the same minute.  I am so glad I get to be their mom.  

Sunday, December 2, 2012

It's GREAT to be 8!


Yesterday was such a special day in our family.  I told Mylie she should write down everything about how she felt so she wouldn't forget.  I want to remember how I felt too!

Personally, I have been in a spiritual famine for the past few years.  However, the last few months, and especially yesterday, I felt like the heavens were opened and spiritual manna poured down on me.  Mylie's baptism was such a special day and I am proud of her for making the choice to be baptized.

Her baptism was a stake baptism and there were eight children getting baptized, including her and her friend Josh McKnight from our ward.  There was a sweet spirit at the baptism program.  There was a talk about baptism and then a little girl sang the Primary song, "Baptism."  It was beautiful.  Grandma got to give the talk about the Holy Ghost and she did a great job.  She talked about how she likes to wear her warm gloves and keep them in her pocket so they are always with her.  She compared this to the Holy Ghost and how we can have it with us.  She told the children to make sure when they say their prayers to thank Heavenly Father that they get to have the Holy Ghost as a companion.

We were dismissed in groups to go for the baptisms.  Mylie was the first one to get baptized!  Jeff baptized her and Grandpa and Uncle Ben were the witnesses.  She understood that she had to be baptized by immersion and that meant she had to go all the way under the water.  She remembered to plug her  nose, but not close her mouth.  But she went all the way under.  Her cousins and friends were able to sit on the ground by the baptism font so they could watch.

I went to help her change out of her baptismal clothes and back into her beautiful white dress.  I was so happy that I got to be in the changing room and be the first one to give her a big hug.  After both Mylie and Jeff got changed into their dry clothes, our family and friends went with Josh's family and friends into the primary room where Bishop Perkins conducted and both children took turns getting confirmed.

Mylie was confirmed first.  Last month Jeff asked Mylie is she would like to ask Grandpa to confirm her.  She thought about it for a few days and decided that she did.  This was special to me as I was baptized by my dad and confirmed by my Grandpa.  Grandpa gets choked up easily (he said it was the chlorine), but gave Mylie such a nice blessing.  Jeff, Uncle Ben, Uncle Jason, and Bishop Perkins stood in the circle with Grandpa.  When the confirmation was over Uncle Ben told her she had to give everyone a hug.  She had such a big grin on her face and had big hugs to give to Grandpa, Jeff, Uncle Ben, Uncle Jason, and Bishop Perkins.

After both kids were confirmed, Sister Perkins, their Primary teacher, got up to talk to Mylie and Josh.  The Perkins have been in our ward for a long time and I just adore Sunny.  I have often thought how much she reminds me of my own Grandma.  She got up to talk to Mylie and Josh and had a gift for each of them.  She had made them each a blanket and talked about how the blanket is a comforter just like the Holy Ghost.  I was overcome with emotion for how much she loves the children in her Primary class.  And I knew this was something exactly like my Grandma would have done.  As I talked to Sister Perkins afterwards I told her again how she reminds me so much of my Grandma and that I appreciate all she did today and how I felt like my Grandma was here.  Bishop Perkins then told me that she probably was.

At the closing of the confirmations, Bishop Perkins called Mylie and Josh up and asked them to look out and see all the people who were there today and who love them.  My heart was full, because I know that all those people love me too.

After the baptism and confirmation, we hosted a luncheon at the neighborhood clubhouse in Star.  It was so fun to be able to visit and spend time together.  Mylie and Blake loved having all their cousins there.

Today was a special day at church.  The Bishop called her and Josh up to introduce them as the newest members of the church.  Today was fast and testimony meeting and Mylie also chose to bear her testimony.  She has such a sweet spirit.  I also bore my testimony today.  I have been so overcome with emotion since yesterday.  It took a long time for me to get pregnant with Mylie.  I remember pleading with Heavenly Father that if he would bless us with a baby, I promised I would raise that baby in the Gospel.  I thought about that promise a lot yesterday.  I know that Heavenly Father is proud of Mylie, but I hope He is also pleased with Jeff and I as parents.

I am so grateful for Mylie and the sweet, kind, smart, funny, loving girl she is.  She is such a help at our house and a good friend and example to Blake.  I am so grateful for Jeff and his desire to be a righteous husband and father.  I am so blessed to be married to my best friend.  I am grateful that we are an eternal family.  I am thankful for my family and the effort they all made to share yesterday with us.  It meant so much to me to have my entire family there.  I am thankful for Jeff's family and their support.  And I'm thankful for my wonderful friends who shared yesterday with us.

My heart is so full!  I couldn't have asked for a better start to the Christmas season than to spend it focusing on baptism, Jesus, family and friends.


Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Back in the swing of things ...

Its hard to believe we are FIVE weeks into the school year!  It has been a whirlwind.  Here's the rundown:

BLAKE:  
  • in the pre-kindergarten class at his preschool
  • when asked, responds that he is FOUR AND A HALF
  • is playing soccer and really likes it
  • got to tour the police station, and ride in a police car earlier this month
  • has a lot of girlfriends
MYLIE:
  • is loving 2nd grade
  • but learning that 2nd grade is harder than 1st grade
  • playing on an awesome soccer team this fall 
  • scored 5 goals on Saturday
  • gets baptized in 2 months
JEFF:
  • rode 1733 miles on his bike so far this year (wow!)
  • just started Brazilian Jiu Jitzu classes this month
  • (has lots of bruises already)
  • taking 2 graduate classes this semester
  • is such an awesome Dad
STEPH:
  • is an activity days leader
  • loves watching the kids play soccer
  • has great classes this semester, but is super busy!
  • leaves for Moscow tomorrow for a quick trip (go Vandals!)
  • has a crush on her iPhone 5

Thursday, June 28, 2012

Like father like son!

No one at our house likes snakes, no one.  Whenever Jeff sees a snake - TV or real life - he dreams about snakes that night.  He often tries to fight the snake in the night ... of course there are no snakes in our bed, just me.  This literally happens every.single.time.

So, we all went to the zoo this afternoon.  Of course we saw the snake (well, I looked the other way).  Everyone went to bed tonight and I stayed downstairs to do some work (and avoid Jeff killing the snake, LOL!).  Lo and behold I hear a terrified scream and go into Blake's room.  He is mostly asleep but tells me there is a snake in his bed and that it licked his arm.  Like father like son.

Blake is now upstairs sleeping with Jeff.  I think I'll let those two battled it out tonight and I'll take the couch.  :)

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

Heartbreaking

Tragically, a few weeks ago in Star, there was a terrible car accident.  The family involved is in our ward.  Their daughter is one of Mylie's friends and their 5-year old little boy was in Jeff and I's nursery class a few years ago.  He died from injuries sustained in the car accident.

It is heartbreaking, no other words for it.  No one expects to bury a 5-year old.  Jeff and I attended little Alvin's funeral on Saturday.  It was a beautiful celebration of his short life.  Both his parents spoke, and I was impressed with their strength.  There was beautiful music and sweet stories about his life.

Our Bishop gave a wonderful talk about why bad things happen to good people.  I am sure this was a question weighing on everyone's mind.


  • To the sightless or hearing impaired, [God] sharpens the other senses. … With the loss of a dear one, He deepens the bonds of love, enriches memories, and kindles hope in a future reunion. You will discover compensatory blessings when you willingly accept the will of the Lord and exercise faith in Him” (Ensign, May 1996, 25). —Elder Richard G. Scott Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles
  • President James E. Faust said, “Into every life there come the painful, despairing days of adversity and buffeting. There seems to be a full measure of anguish, sorrow, and often heartbreak for everyone, including those who earnestly seek to do right and be faithful. … For some, the refiner’s fire causes a loss of belief and faith in God, but those with eternal perspective understand that such refining is part of the perfection process” (Ensign, May 1979, 54).


A few years ago Jeff's mom recommended the book "The Shack" to me.  I hadn't heard of it, and didn't know anything about it, but she told me that it really touched her.  It touched me as well.  This book has come back to mind many times in the last week.  The main theme that I took away from the book was that the Lord can't give us free agency, and then take away someone's free agency to prevent horrible things from happening.  We either have free agency or we don't.

The person who hit this family rear ended them going 55 mph.  The family was stopped at a stop light.  Yet at the funeral, the family prayed for the woman who hit them, to comfort her.  My heart was so touched at their forgiveness and their capacity to love.

The last week or so has reminded me that we have no idea what our tomorrows will look like.  We need to embrace each day and each moment.  After hugging Mylie 13 times the other night before bed, she called me back for one last hug.  My initial thought was frustration (enough stalling!), but it immediately changed and I went back in her room and hugged her as tight as I could.  I will continue to hug them and love them.  I don't want to have regrets.


Wednesday, June 13, 2012

Conversations ...

A few interesting conversations with the kids today:

Blake got in trouble and got sent to his room.  As he walked off he said, "Mommy, you know Jesus is watching you!"

In the van today Mylie randomly tells me that when she is going to have a baby she doesn't want to wear a dress - just a shirt and pants or shirt and a skirt.  Because when they have to take the baby out of your tummy, she doesn't want the doctor to pull up her dress and see her panties.  She just wants the doctor to have to pull up her shirt to get to her tummy.  Oh honey, your panties will be the least of your problems!  That is what I wanted to say, instead I just said, uh-huh.  

Spicy Mac & Cheese

Last summer my dear friends, Karen, Leslie and I went to Sisters, Oregon for the quilt festival.  For dinner one night we went to a Brewery in Bend.  Everything on the menu looked great, but I ordered something I had never ordered in a restaurant before - mac and cheese.  It was to die for good and I couldn't stop thinking about it after we got back.  I knew I had to replicate it and so the search began for a recipe.  I found a great recipe from Pioneer Woman and then altered it a bit.

Let's just say - this is so good!!  I wouldn't try to calculate the calories on it, but seriously, so good!  Mylie and I are going to make it right now.


Steph’s Spicy Macaroni & Cheese
(adapted from Pioneer Woman)

1 box pasta
1 tablespoon olive oil

diced onion

diced peppers (I like to use a combo of red, orange, yellow)

1 4 oz can chopped green chilies

2 to 3 cloves garlic, chopped

diced ham
1 cup cream

1 generous cup grated Pepper Jack cheese
(I use half cheddar and half pepper jack and usually use more than 1 cup)
2 tablespoons butter

Salt

Pepper
paprika

Boil pasta until al dente. In a large skillet, add olive oil and saute garlic and vegetables over medium heat for a couple of minutes. Add ham.   Add in canned chilies and stir around, then turn off heat. Drain pasta and add it to skillet. Pour on cream, add cheese, then add salt, pepper, and paprika to taste and stir gently. At the end, add 2 tablespoons butter and stir again. Check seasonings and serve.

**You can add in other veggies – I sometimes use tomatoes or sun-dried tomatoes.  You could also add corn. 

**Sometimes I double this recipe.  I take ½ and put it in a 9x13 pan and sprinkle bread crumbs over top and then it can be baked later for another meal.  I imagine it would freeze well.